One person's influence

Terry's mission President, Marvin L. Pugh, died at the age of 98. He has said in the past that he didn't think anyone would come to his funeral. His only daughter preceeded him in death when she was killed at the age of 21, in a car accident. His wife, the love of his life, passed away earlier this year. Pres. Pugh said he has no posterity, so who would come? He was wrong. He was the father figure to over 350 missionaries 30+ years ago, and they all have children and grandchildren, and ALL our lives have been influenced greatly by this magnificent man. Pages and pages were printed up with all the names of his "posterity", which was included as an insert with the program.

Terry, along with 3 other missionaries, who were called the Mormonaires on their mission as they sang together in a LIVE theatre for many months and the experience was a mission tool, had the privilege of singing Oh Danny Boy (Pres. Pugh's favorite song), with the 2nd verse written by the group (mostly Nick Mills) personalizing it to Pres. Pugh, beginning with "Oh Man of God". The guys made up the parts themselves. They sing acapella, in real tight harmony, and it was the most gorgeous thing I've ever heard. The only advice I gave them is that this wasn't to be a "performance", but a sweet tribute to Pres. Pugh. It was not to impress the congregation. The spirit carried the message beautifully.

The chapel, overflow, and cultural hall was full. Many were missionaries, some traveling long distances to be there today to honor this great man. Pres. Monson himself, came to the viewing last night, expressing what a great man Pres. Pugh was and how he had extended all of his callings to him. Unfortunately, we weren't at the viewing, (the guys were rehearsing at another location), so didn't get to see Pres. Monson, but still so cool!!

Pres. Pugh was an unassuming, humble, caring, loving man. He was a teacher. The way he taught was by example. Just by knowing him, and talking to him, made a person want to be better. He KNEW and loved the Savior.

Terry and I were married in the SLC temple Sept. 20, 1980, and Pres. Pugh performed the ceremony. He and his wife offered their home to me and my family in the days preceeding the wedding. I still remember the love extended to us, the feeling in their home, and the words spoken in the temple at our wedding, and since.

Today I have reflected on all that I've learned from this man and I think the best way to honor him, is to go forward in life, putting into practice what he has taught.

He will never be forgotten.